Cross examination is probably the most important stage where false cases filed by wives can get demolished – and at the end of it what looked like kevlar plated armour of a wife’s case looks worse than torn underwear. The gynocentric and women-protecting System will always try not to let the cases reach this stage and which is the reason the so called counselling by CAW/mahila thana etc, mediations in DV or in family courts are preferred routes to nip the possibility of any fight being put up by husband in the bud. He is given the carrot of mutual consent divorce and withdrawal of all cases in return for settlement money to wife. What all ‘justice’ can’t a bunch of money buy? For those who have decided to go beyond the initial pain and uncertainty and willing to run it like a marathon … [Read more...] about Basic Cross-examination techniques in matrimonial cases like DV, CrPC 125, Divorce, 498A, 406 etc
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Is there any law which supports men?
Recently someone sent email via our NGO website and upon my reply to his email giving some basic advice and further suggestion to join our groups, he replied back asking with a profound question, which triggered the need for writing this article. His full email had only one sentence: “ok thank u but is there no law which supports men can police help”. As an aside, I am unable to understand why do some people (though it has come down a lot) reply to my email asking a further question ignoring the standard large sized red coloured matter at the end of my every email: “I will not reply to personal emails for advice in future. Guidance is given only inside groups.”? My guess is that many a man facing cases from their wives, somehow feel entitled to ignore such ‘minor’ inconvenient … [Read more...] about Is there any law which supports men?
Sailing two boats – how pretenders end up making fools of themselves
There's a saying: you can't sail in two boats at the same time. But I see even in men rights groups (like our Facebook group) -- from deciphering some of the questions and comments -- that people want to sail in two boats at the same time: Boat 1/Survival-Slave: Possibility of living together (or more correctly under the same roof) with a manipulative, narcissistic, toxic female who calls herself your wife. This inspite of she abusing you/mother/father, giving suicide threats etc. This is the Survival Boat, other synonyms being Zombie, Slave, Pet-Dog-of-Wife-In-Laws Boat. Boat 2/Dignity-Self-Respect: Some unavoidable pain and uncertainty in short term (2 years is short term), but idea of saving one's sanity and self-respect, and not to say the least: "protect my parents"... the often … [Read more...] about Sailing two boats – how pretenders end up making fools of themselves
Analysis of provisions for punishing false cases/allegations and false evidence in IPC and CrPC
Lot of the time people who are facing false cases -- be it IPC 498A, false domestic violence allegations under DV Act, -- tend to make a demand to lawmakers and political leaders, that a provision of law misuse must be added to so and so Act, e.g. add misuse clause to IPC 498A, or add misuse clause to rape law to punish women making false rape complaints. All those demands are from made with good intentions, but there is a saying: “the road to hell is paved with good intentions”. Which means: Even if we start doing something with good intentions, we may end up with bad consequences; because merely having good intentions is not enough, it has to be backed by proper analysis, and then taking right actions at right time. And one should be flexible and open-minded … [Read more...] about Analysis of provisions for punishing false cases/allegations and false evidence in IPC and CrPC
FIR against wife for alleged bid to extort money from husband by threat of false dowry 498A case
Breaking news! An FIR has been registered by suburban Kandivali police against a woman today for allegedly cheating, trying to extort money, reneging on her divorce agreement as well as threatening to file a false dowry case against her husband. Case has been registered against two of the woman's close relatives also. According to the case which was filed on April 9, the police has charged the accused persons under Section 385 (extortion), Section 420 (cheating) and Section 34 (common intention) of the Indian Penal Code. Don’t we always say that all this 498A extortion business is always a ‘team operation’. Even in above case, it’s not just the woman who is accused, two of her relatives also seem to be part of the ‘deal’ to get some enrichment from the benefits of marriage … [Read more...] about FIR against wife for alleged bid to extort money from husband by threat of false dowry 498A case
Why Indian men should be very careful in filing divorce
To better understand some of the terminology and context used in this post, reading some of the important posts is recommended. Now this post will cover the majority of cases of calls and issues received by men’s rights activists (MRAs) all over India. Almost 80-90% of callers have been into very short marriages, anywhere from 1 year to 3 years where the time wife was in same home as husband maybe anywhere from few weeks, few months, or maximum maybe 1.5 years or so. So even if the marriage happened 3 years back, the time wife stayed with husband maybe 1.5 years or so only. These are just guidelines. The important thing to understand is wife spent a significant time away from husband in initial few years of marriage and it was not due to practical issues related to … [Read more...] about Why Indian men should be very careful in filing divorce